Happy Birthday Cracku

Wish You A Very Happy Birthday Cracku

Kitabon ke panno ko jab

main yun hi palatta hu

kahin ek kone main

kuch yaadon ke sayon main

Dosti kahin chhipi dikhti hain

Pata chala yun hi guzarte guzarte

hamne kuch lamho ko

shayad kabhi bandh ke rakha tha

ki woh bas lamhe na rehke
dosti ki yaadein ban gayi

Manzilein kai aur bhi hain 

Raastein kai aur bhi hain
Behti hawa ke rukh ko modna aasan nahin
mushkilein kahin aur bhi hain

Dosti tumhara khaas hain
ehsaas hamara saath hain
par un lanhon se na mil paatein ham

Yaadon ko na bana paatein hum

Timeless is friendship and its journey and you being a part of my voyage of it...

Thanks for being their BUDDY.

YOURS DUMBO

Conflicts, Aim And Success!!!

1. Conflict should be at par but not extremes. 

    Than the real perspective will be portrayed. 

    Because differences between good and bad 

    Is already known than where is the confrontation!!!

2. Meeting the horizon,

    Is not only my aim. 

    Its about journey 

   Which is my only claim!!!

3. I have nothing in common with success 
     except my integrity and 
     ability to learn from
     my failures. 

4. When i see around
    And find something amiss
    Feeling the need to know
    What is the void all about...

I realise its me missing the presence of yours...
Solitude transcending the emptyness!!! 

The Last Laugh???

Last night was our end night,

Moment i looked back to hold your hand

Could look at you, facing the back

And i realised...WE HAVE GROWN APART!!!

But the instant when i turned around, 

To follow the road ahead

I saw my friendship, smiling back to me.

That's when it dawned upon...

You there still here in some corner,

............Overshadowed ...........

By the present....smiling back to my past...looking forward to my future. 

The Lyrical Melody!!!

-By Jerry

Letter From A Friend- Importance of Cards!!!

Abhi,,,,i have this box ..full of cards...i have recd,,,from time to time on my birthday...and few otherwise also..depending on the mood n occasions.
i was going thru them..and sum r dated as long as ..15 yrs back..and r still treasured...it gave me reason to b nostalgic and each one of them ..equally important..
i was wondering ...the importance of cards and how much they speak to us ..even after ..years ...and words started flowing and this is Wat i wrote :)

"" Man has always been a slave to his emotions.However he has found it difficult to express them especially when an event occurs that makes him remember his loved ones .
Cards are wonderful medium that aptly express unspoken words.It shows the recipients that they are special.They are more expressive as they say more than the words in them ,It conveys that u have made an effort. Fond memories can b preserved in form of cards as it captures the essence of every mood .
 Emotions like love can be beautifully expressed in three simple words but these words are rarely spoken..may be because they are the most difficult words to utter. Even if one does manage to say it,,,a couple of words do not match the whole gamut of emotions within .
 A card not only put your feelings into words it also helps keep these words fresh in the mind of the recipient.Think about it ...how many times have u turned the pages of a book to find a card inside ...to brighten up your day..even ten years after it was sent .In short..when u cant find words to express your feelings..its a card u turn to ...not just because it says what you want to ..but because some people in our lives are worth telling that you care for them .
 Now card have been replaced by e-cards ...still it hasn't lost its essence ..they r still my most treasured moments ...both receiving as well as emailing them ""

Betu

Quotes On Friendship

http://formy-betu.blogspot.com/2011/09/15-quotes-i-relate-to-you-and-our.html

Happy Birthday Betu!!!

THE 12 COMMANDMENTS OF RELATIONSHIP!!!

DATE: 10.09.2011
PLACE: NEW DELHI
TIME: 10.36 A.M.
STATE OF MIND: Nostalgic

Special People, Special Deeds...

Sometimes in life there are few people you meet who change you completely. Be it for good or bad. But the change happens. But as rightly said ''Change is the only constant''. But i realised the only constant needs a series of elements to make it happen.

We often talk about relationship...be it the affection attached to it, the tribulations we go through but if i wanna deduce or act as a reductionist here as far as  its few fundamental elements i get 12 major which can be sowed and nurtured to make it worth it. I know i sound quite mechanical but i just tried to be an honest observer and a keen learner so that i dont make the mistakes which i did '' to let go my precious bonds''.


People have various ways of putting it... i am just doing it my way. 


THE 12 COMMANDMENTS OF A RELATIONSHIP...

 1. FRIENDSHIP

2. LOVE/AFFECTION

3. TRUST/BELIEF

A good person close to me
asked me one day
“What if I broke
your trust someday..?”

I replied “trusting U
was my decision and
proving me right is
Ur choice.”

 4. COMPANIONSHIP/ABILITY TO GROW TOGETHER

 







5. PATIENCE

6. UNDERSTANDING

7. SENSE OF HUMOUR/WIT

8. FEELING OF BELONGING/TOGETHERNESS

9. PASSION

10. INDIVIDUALITY/PERSONAL SPACE

11. CARE/ATTENTION-MAKING THE PERSON FEEL SPECIAL

 

12. DIFFERENCES/FIGHTS 

Great relationships are not only about understanding and love but also about the fights and differences and accepting it as part of the package. ( as quoted by somebody)

I am not somebody who would ponder much about relationships much, but met few in my life who has forced me in their loving ways to make me realise the importance of '' being in a great bonding''.

The above i have been taught by them is essential for the bonding to be alive.

Special thanks to those individuals who made the great little differences in my life for making me what i am today.

Liked the portrayal of my ''ATTITUDE''....By Cracku

Attitude is sometimes worth it...if portrayed well!!!

Innocence called FRIENDSHIP..with all tribulations