Entering the world as a boy, moment of joy for the family. Mostly thinking the boy gonna take care of his parents, shall earn for family and thank god we dun have to save money for hos dowry. Thats kinda usual compared to a gal born to a family. I am talking about the indian traditional and conventional mentality. Sweets distributed among the colony, ( ladka hua ji mere beti ko)...badha hoke engineer, doctor, and sum ppl...hero banega. Since birth expectations rise as u r supposed to be strong, powerful, virile and responsible. You being man is expected not to show your emotion, and if u cry than u r 'feminine'. Kinda irony if u show ur feelings u r 'nt a man'. If u speak ur mind than u r rude. If u dont speak and try to be silent, u dont care. Relationships r not handled well by man. Man only care about their work and dun care a shyt abt their loved ones. Strange it can get, but sometimes when u cant let out ur own self...u become little frustrated and u wish the ppl u love adore shud understand you specially if u r an introvert but with time things change, ppl change, intensity of bonding change. And u r back to ur own lonely self. Sometimes you need to pay for your solitude and being loner.
''man dont cry is the usual known fact, but the unknown truth is man feels the pain as much as any woman''....(to be continued)
hehehehehe.....=))=))...omg wat is thiss...hehehe.....dada...lol...hehehe ....lollll...dada... u r too cute.. =)) mr khadus...lol..cartoon!!!
ReplyDeletehe he sounded funny jerry?
ReplyDeletehmm nt funny exactly...but yes i found it very adorable and innocent...ive always seen that tough tough dada who never expressed his inner self..i never thought it would become so simple to understand him..i always made assumptions n guesses to understand him...some where v all knw y he gets rude or frustrated at times... dats a common human nature...but i dint expect he would accept n express this so beautifully n with so much simplicity..lol i laughed bcoz i was shocked :P ...but i have to accept n thank dada to start this blog... this blog is helping me to knw u better:P...always keep posting ur state of mind...it brings a smile on my face >:D<
ReplyDelete@jerry, well it was spur of moment and i guess every man thinks like that at sum point of time lol. Nothing personal though:D
ReplyDeleteSocial and stratification to demarcate us to endorse what dis percent has perceived is TRUE.
ReplyDeleteGood morning Abhi :)
ReplyDeleteHey rups thanks for the comment. Percieved 'truth' is nothing but sometimes the alter reality of society.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm :-? quite interesting Ani...!
ReplyDeleteEven though m a feminine..I would proudly accept the fact that "she" as in "we" are never satisfied with what we get....:))... But yea, I totally understand where the thoughts are coming from...
A very detailed thoughts you have jot down... !
Good Jobbbb....! Waiting for the continuous part eagerly..... lol
Dunno when the continued part will be published...but again thanks for the comment kavz. when a friend who knows me for many years says sumthing encouraging it helps:)
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