Entering the world as a boy, moment of joy for the family. Mostly thinking the boy gonna take care of his parents, shall earn for family and thank god we dun have to save money for hos dowry. Thats kinda usual compared to a gal born to a family. I am talking about the indian traditional and conventional mentality. Sweets distributed among the colony, ( ladka hua ji mere beti ko)...badha hoke engineer, doctor, and sum ppl...hero banega. Since birth expectations rise as u r supposed to be strong, powerful, virile and responsible. You being man is expected not to show your emotion, and if u cry than u r 'feminine'. Kinda irony if u show ur feelings u r 'nt a man'. If u speak ur mind than u r rude. If u dont speak and try to be silent, u dont care. Relationships r not handled well by man. Man only care about their work and dun care a shyt abt their loved ones. Strange it can get, but sometimes when u cant let out ur own self...u become little frustrated and u wish the ppl u love adore shud understand you specially if u r an introvert but with time things change, ppl change, intensity of bonding change. And u r back to ur own lonely self. Sometimes you need to pay for your solitude and being loner.
''man dont cry is the usual known fact, but the unknown truth is man feels the pain as much as any woman''....(to be continued)
